- First dates always come with nerves and naivety about what appropriate questions to ask
- These questions have been compiled to help you on your first date
- It is important to be natural and not rush the questions
The process of choosing a partner usually starts with a date and on that date, it is best to set the ball rolling by asking the right questions.
This will help you make a decision about your date easily. You would know for sure if you wanted to pursue something with your date after asking the right questions.
One tip for getting to know your date on a deeper level is to ask open-ended questions. This will make them share more information about themselves with you.
Asking relevant questions on your date will also help fill your time, eliminate awkwardness and help you feel at ease with your date.
However, do not fire questions rapidly at your date as it would then take the fun out of the date, fill it with awkwardness and make it seem like an interview.
35 realistic questions to ask on your first date
Here are over 30 questions that you can ask your date on your first outing together:
- What’s your philosophy towards life?
- What matters to you?
- What’s your genotype?
- What’s your relationship with your family members like?
- What triggers your anger?
- What’s your temperament?
- How religious are you?
- What does being successful mean to you?
- What are your long term goals?
- What are your short term goals?
- What is your biggest achievement in life?
- Do you believe in telling your spiritual father everything?
- How secretive are you?
- What talents do you have?
- What survival skills do you have?
- What’s your dream job?
- How do you handle loss?
- Are you an introvert or extrovert?
- What do you do in your free time?
- Do you work out?
- Are you independent?
- Are you politically aware?
- Are you a reader?
- What kind of music do you like?
- Do you listen to crime podcasts?
- What is your worst habit?
- Do you believe in astrology and zodiac signs?
- Do you like animals?
- What qualities do you want in a partner?
- How do you handle conflict?
- What was your first impression of me?
- Are you a morning person or a night owl?
- What is your least favourite thing to do?
- What is the most exciting thing you’ve done?
- Where would you love to live?