- A man’s infidelity is often not frowned upon by society
- There has now been a shift in moral norms that excuse men from cheating
- There are many telltale signs of infidelity in men.
“All men cheat!” “It is in the genetic make-up of a man to cheat,” “Polygamy is natural.”
These and many more are the excuses that many men give when caught cheating.
Within the confines of marriage, infidelity on the part of the husband is often excused by society, however, in recent times, there has been a shift in moral norms.
People are beginning to see beyond the traditions and customs that excuse men from cheating.
Here are 6 signs that your husband may be cheating.
6 signs your husband is cheating
- Paying more attention to his appearance
When your husband pays more attention to his appearance, it might be a sign of cheating. If he starts dressing better than before, pays attention to how he smells, works out more, he might be trying to impress someone who’s not you.
- Suddenly more loving
Most Nigerian men are not really in tune with their emotions and may not show their wives or significant others affection. If your husband is not that type and suddenly starts to show you love and affection, buying you gifts and “flowers”, he might be getting pointers from someone else. He might be more affectionate because he’s guilty of something or trying to cover his tracks.
- Monitoring spirits
When your partner is cheating on you, he might turn into a monitoring spirit that tries to monitor your movement and everything that you do out of fear that you might be doing the same thing he’s doing.
- Gut feeling
A woman’s instinct is said to be the most powerful force on earth. If you have a gut feeling, maybe something doesn’t feel right, or you just have a bad feeling that your husband is cheating on you, he most likely is.
- Becomes more secretive
Some men give their partner access to their phones, if that access is withdrawn, something might be fishy. A man who is cheating will not want his wife to have access to his phone and gadgets, in case she stumbles on details of his affair. He might also not be willing to give you details of his day or his whereabouts. Such men take their phones wherever they go, toilet, kitchen, a walk, etc.
- More busy on his phone
A cheating man would mostly give his attention to his new fling, communicating through texts and social media, such men are usually busier than usual on their phones.
It is important to note that these signs are not exhaustive. You may also want to gently confront your husband if he’s exhibiting any of these signs.