- Planning a Nigerian court wedding and traditional wedding on a N1 million budget can seem challenging
- However, it is achievable with proper planning and prioritisation
- Here is how you can have a low-budget wedding with N1 million
Planning a wedding is an exciting journey, but it can quickly become overwhelming, especially when you’re working with a budget. If you’ve set aside 1 million naira to cover both a court and a traditional wedding, don’t worry, you can still pull off a memorable event without breaking the bank. The key is to focus on your marriage not the ceremony.
Here’s a step-by-step guide with a breakdown of how to plan a beautiful wedding on a N1 million budget. Bride price and gifts for the family of the bride are not included in this budget as it varies depending on the family, state and cultural expectations.
1. Court Wedding
Budget: N220,000
A court wedding is a simple and official way to get legally married. Since it doesn’t require a lot of elaborate details, it’s possible to keep costs low while still making it special.
Cost Breakdown:
Registration, certificate and other official expenses at the registry - N40,000
- Outfit for the couple: N40,000
Keep your outfits smart but budget-friendly. You can rent a nice suit or purchase a simple, elegant dress. Tailors can also create budget-friendly outfits if you would prefer something custom-made.
- Wedding ring: N20,000
You can find simple and elegant wedding rings within this price range. Consider getting gold-plated or silver rings, which are affordable but still beautiful.
- Photography: N100,000
A photographer can capture important moments for the entire event, it is more advisable and budget-friendly to have both ceremonies on the same day, that way, you can have the photographer cover both events. Opt for a friend who’s skilled at taking pictures or someone who charges reasonably.
- Family refreshments: N20,000
You may not need to throw a party, but offering light refreshments like small chops to close family and friends can be a nice gesture, although it is not compulsory, especially if you’re having your traditional wedding on the same day.
Total for Court Wedding: ₦220,000
2. Traditional wedding
Budget: N780,000
The traditional wedding is typically the more elaborate and culturally rich ceremony in Nigeria. However, with some smart choices, you can have a beautiful celebration that respects traditions without exceeding your budget.
Cost Breakdown:
- Outfits for Couple (Traditional Attire): N130,000
Traditional wedding attire doesn’t need to be overly expensive. You can source beautiful materials and get a skilled tailor at a reasonable cost. For makeup, you can get a skilled friend to apply your makeup and as for jewellery, you could rent beads or borrow from older women in the family.
- Venue (Family Compound or Small Event Space): N100,000
Consider using a family house or a low-cost event space, which saves on venue costs. If possible, an open space or the compound of a relative or church can be used for free.
- Catering: N200,000
Food and drinks are a big part of the celebration, but it’s important to be strategic here. Go for affordable options that people will enjoy without being too expensive. You can cater for about 50 guests with a carefully selected menu.
- Drinks (Soft drinks, water, small alcohol selection): N70,000
You don’t have to serve a wide variety of drinks. Stick to a few essential items: soft drinks, water, and maybe a small amount of alcohol for those who prefer it.
- Decoration: N50,000
Keep the decoration simple and elegant. Balloons, flowers, and traditional backdrops can add color without costing too much.
- DeeJay: N50,000
Music sets the tone for the celebration, so consider hiring a DJ or even a family member who can handle the music.
- MC (Master of Ceremonies): N30,000
The MC will keep the event lively and orderly. You can save here by asking a funny and eloquent friend to take on the role for a token amount.
- Wedding cake: N50,000
The cake is an important part of the wedding celebration. A beautiful, culturally themed cake doesn’t have to be expensive. Opt for a two-tiered cake with flavors like vanilla, fruit cake, or red velvet. Keep the design simple but elegant, incorporating traditional motifs or colors that match the couple’s attire.
- Miscellaneous (Transportation, Souvenir, etc.): N100,000
These costs could cover transportation for the couple and immediate family, small gifts for guests, or any unexpected expenses that might pop up.
Total for Traditional Wedding: ₦780,000
Tips to stick to your budget:
Limit the guest list: One of the easiest ways to control your budget is by reducing the guest list. Only invite close family and friends.
Be clear with vendors: Let vendors know your budget upfront so they can tailor their services to fit your financial plan.
Combine services: Some photographers also offer videography services, or you might find a caterer who provides decor or can bake your cake. Combining services can save you money.
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