10 relationship goals to keep love alive in 2025

• Love requires intentional effort to thrive, especially in a fast-paced world like Nigeria
• The start of 2025 is the perfect time to refocus on keeping the spark alive in your relationship
• From celebrating small wins to exploring new experiences, here are simple actions that can make a big difference in your relationship 

As 2025 unfolds, the fast-paced demands of life, endless streams of social media distractions, and the constant chase for personal goals can make nurturing love challenging. 

In Nigeria, relationships can be an adventure. And love, like a garden, thrives when watered with intention, effort, and care.

From balancing work stress, family demands, and the everyday hustle, love often takes a backseat. 

But 2025 is here, and it’s time to keep the spark alive intentionally. 

If you want to strengthen your bond with your partner and keep the flame alive, whether you’re married, dating, or navigating situationships (yes, we see you), here are some achievable relationship goals to keep love blooming this year.

10 relationship goals to keep love alive 

1. Communicate beyond words

People tend to sweep things under the rug for peace, but real love thrives on open conversations. Go beyond the usual “How was your day?” and talk about your fears, dreams, and, yes, even the odd things you saw on Instagram.

Start a “gist hour” every week, during which both of you sit down, eat suya or small chops, and talk about anything and everything.

2. Celebrate the little victories

Did your partner make it home through the traffic without losing their mind? Did they finally crack that stubborn jollof rice recipe? Clap for them! Small wins matter, and celebrating them shows that you’re paying attention.

Surprise each other with small treats for the little wins—like buying their favourite snack when you’re out.

3. Keep the romance fresh

Let’s be honest: relationships often lose their spark when we get too comfortable. Romance isn’t just for Valentine’s Day. 

Plan a date night at a spot you’ve never been to, send random love messages, or call them sweet names.

Aim for one out-of-the-box romantic gesture every month, even if it’s a walk in your neighbourhood.

4. Explore new things together

There’s something magical about shared experiences. Whether visiting a museum, trying a new restaurant, or learning to make a dish, exploring keeps things exciting.

Write down fun activities you want to do in 2025 and tick them off one by one.

5. Support each other’s hustle

We all know Nigerians are always hustling, but your partner needs to feel like you’re their biggest cheerleader. 

Be there when they launch that side hustle, write that proposal, or start a new gym routine.

Show up for your partner’s wins—attend their events, repost their business on social media, or send them a random “I’m proud of you” text.

6. Learn to settle fights without drama

In relationships, fights can escalate quickly—especially when pride or family gets involved. 

This year, make it a goal to resolve conflicts like adults. Forget silent treatments or involving your village people (literally or figuratively).

Agree to settle every argument within 24 hours, even if it means saying, “I was wrong.”

7. Create your own rituals

Many couples rarely have rituals outside the usual Sunday rice or family functions. 

Create traditions unique to your love story. These could include watching a movie every Friday, praying together every morning, or taking Sunday evening strolls.

Start with one small ritual you can both look forward to each week.

8. Be each other’s safe space

Life in Nigeria can be challenging—fuel scarcity, naira fluctuations, and even electricity wahala. 

Your relationship should be one in which both of you feel understood and safe. Be a good listener, show empathy, and remind your partner that they’re not alone.

Ask your partner, “How can I support you this week?” and actually follow through.

9. Keep the affection alive

Physical touch matters—holding hands, cuddling, or a random forehead kiss. Some couples can be shy about public displays of affection, but it’s okay to show love!

Hug your partner every day, even if it’s just before heading out to go to work.

10. Disconnect to reconnect

The distractions are plenty—WhatsApp, TikTok, and that endless Instagram scroll. 

Make time to disconnect from your devices and give each other undivided attention.

Dedicate at least one hour daily as “no-phone time” to bond.

Love is sweet, but maintaining it requires effort. In 2025, choose to be intentional about your relationship. It’s not about big gestures or money—it’s the little things done consistently that matter.

So, whether it’s texting “I love you” during a long workday or planning a trip to Obudu Cattle Ranch, let this year be the one where your relationship not only survives but thrives.

What’s your first relationship goal for 2025?

10 types of intimacy that can strengthen your relationship

Meanwhile, TheRadar earlier compiled 10 types of intimacy, highlighting how each can enhance your connection and offering practical tips for cultivating them in your relationship.

In healthy relationships, intimacy manifests in various forms, each serving as a pillar that supports the partnership. 

It isn’t limited to grand gestures or fleeting moments; it’s woven into daily interactions, shared experiences, and mutual growth.